JD: There was another moment you had with your family on this film, which was when you were in Melbourne, and your mom said something. Can you tell the world what happened there?
RB: So I’d just been given the role, and we heard that Robbie was gonna be performing in Melbourne, and that was my birthday weekend. We just bought tickets because we would’ve bought tickets regardless. We had seats in the nosebleeds. The funny thing is, I first heard She’s the One on the Knebworth DVD. I don’t remember it being the big song that it is. I thought it was just something that only my family knew. He started it, and the whole audience erupted – phone lights went up, and everyone was singing. I burst into tears. And my mom was pointing, going, “She’s the one! She’s the one!”
JD: True mum fashion. And of course, She’s the One – I should point out to everyone – in the film is a very special song for you and your character, Nicole, because it accompanies this spectacle, this time-jumping dance segment that is just so poignant. It touches on very emotional, personal matters for the two of them but also really shows off not only Michael’s ability as a director but also your ability as a dancer.
RB: Yeah. I really loved the scene prior. That was one of my audition scenes, and I had no idea where it went. It was only when I met Simon Gleason in my callback that he said, “Oh, this goes into She’s the One,” and I thought, “Oh my gosh, that’s perfect. How beautiful.” I love scenes that have action – where you learn about people and you really gain character and story through movement. I think Michael has such a skill to do that through dance as well. Everything has to mean something. I was really excited to see that vision come to life. I got to meet Ashley Rollin after I’d been asked if I could dance. I went into his studio in London, and he ran through a couple of moves with me. I didn’t realize, but they wanted to test if I was telling the truth. He stopped me after a while and went, “Oh, so you’ve danced?” I was like, “Yeah, I’ve danced.” We learned the opening sequence, which ended up being slightly different choreography, but we learned quite quickly. I feel like I picked up the choreography pretty quickly. It was strange to hear this new version of She’s the One – hearing Rob’s voice but knowing that I was the one he was singing about at that moment. I had to lean against a wall on the way out and just be like, “This is a lot.”
JD: That choreography wasn’t just difficult in itself – you also had to match what it bleeds into, because the dance cuts in with scene segments, right? So you really had to be definitive and detailed with your arm and hand placement.
RB: Exactly. Everything – eye line, positioning – it was like we were filming a short film within the film. You and I had already filmed those in-between scenes, we had our story and the arc of the relationship mapped out, and then it was just a matter of trying to match that energy. It was beautiful in the sense that both the scene before She’s the One and the dance itself are the first time Rob and Nicole meet. They’re just falling for each other – it’s pure love and joy.
“It was beautiful in the sense that both the scene before She’s the One and the dance itself are the first time Rob and Nicole meet. They’re just falling for each other – it’s pure love and joy.”
JD: And like I said, the dance intercuts with scene work, and we see Rob and Nicole’s journey unfold. The audience almost sees their timeline before they do. In those moments, the film touches on some really sensitive, emotional subjects, which is even more impactful knowing that this is a true story. One of the big ones is that Rob and Nicole go through an abortion, which is a sensitive, and in some places, taboo subject. What was that like for you? Did you feel a responsibility, a pressure? Were you worried about delving into that world?
RB: I wasn’t worried, because I think the only way we take away the taboo around these topics is to acknowledge them – to face them and talk about not just the act itself, but also the consequences. Especially when the decision comes from someone having their choice taken away, or being presented with an ultimatum that isn’t in their best interest. I was really proud that Simon, Michael and Oliver wanted to tell this story truthfully, and that they wanted to do it with Nicole’s consent. I know Rob was emphatic about that – he didn’t want to tell this story without her. Props to him for that, and props to them for wanting to be honest. This happened a lifetime ago, but it’s still worth discussing and exploring. The pressure I felt was making sure I was as emotionally educated on the subject as possible. I read Together, the book Nicole wrote with her sister Natalie, where she details the experience – not just how she felt when she learned she was pregnant, but also how the pregnancy and the possibility of it affected their relationship. There was a lot of hope in that moment, which makes the downfall, when it’s all taken away from them, even more heartbreaking. It wasn’t about replicating Nicole – she has her book, and if people want to hear from her, she’s here to tell her story. My job was to find the truth in the moment, within our version of the story. You were such a gift in that – you really met me on that level, and we were on the same page with all of it. Then, it was about finding the truth with the people on set.
JD: I love what you said about it not being about replicating Nicole. This was also your first time playing a real person, so was your prep different?
RB: Slightly, yes, because this time I had facts to work from. Usually, a big part of my process is building the inner world of the character—how they hold themselves, how they see the world. This time, I had nineties interviews and documentaries to watch, plus Nicole’s book, which gave me her inner monologue. I could see her experience from the outside, but also build an inner world that would ring true for our version of the story. There were also these really beautiful videos I found of her with Liam and with Rob over the years, showing how she carried herself and how she looked at people. That helped me bring something truthful to my performance. My process was more about settling into the energy of the scene. Most of my work was with you, so it was about feeling connected to the space and the people I was working with. That helped me feel safe enough to play. There were a couple of scenes where I had to be really emotional, and I remember asking you for a hug before one of them!
JD: I remember that!
RB: And then the take ended up being ruined anyway! But yeah, I like to feel connected physically or energetically before a scene.
JD: The word “collaboration” gets thrown around a lot, but I think it really meant something on this project. There was one scene between us – one of our big emotional moments – where something just felt off. We couldn’t quite click into it. And then we went home that night thinking it was our fault. I even messaged you saying, “I’m so sorry, I was crap.”
RB: And I sobbed myself to sleep!
JD: I had a message from Simon, our writer, saying, “We failed you with this scene.” Eric’s going, “What am I doing wrong with the camera?” And I love that everyone had a responsibility. It wasn’t a pressure where we thought, “Oh, we’re gonna lose our jobs” or “We’re ruining everything.” It was more like, “I need to step up. I need to really commit myself to this.” Everyone registered that. The next day, we came in fresh, put the previous day behind us, and just played. That’s my favorite ethos, my favorite kind of environment – that shared ownership.
RB: No one was just clocking in on this job. You can see in every frame of this film the care that went into it, which makes watching it so exhilarating. That comes from the top. No one can have a conversation with Michael Gracie and not walk away feeling passion and excitement. You just really want to deliver for him, and that energy rippled through the entire crew. It made the set a great experience, but I think it also shows in the final product – there’s heart in every aspect of it.