Mason Alexander Park: How much do you miss me in the building?
Dino Fetscher: Not at all. No, I miss you daily. We started this together, didn’t we? From the day I got the job, to meeting at press night, going for coffee and bumping into Giles. It’s been such a journey together. You’re my irreplaceable Mary and when the cast changed it was a real trauma. I miss you immensely, and I need you to come back from Budapest immediately so we can hang out.
MAP: I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone cry more than you and I on the last show we did together. It was like someone had taken one of our favourite toys from childhood and shot it in the face.
DF: We could barely get through scenes. We were crying like kids. It was a testament to the whole journey we went on with the play. We built it together, shared every bug, both had flu, went through the Oliviers together then won the Olivier. It was one of the most incredible journeys of my life, and we did it together. So when you left, it was horrific.
MAP: Let’s go back to the beginning. You’ve had a remarkable career across theatre, television and film. How did Oh, Mary! come into your life?
DF: Theatre is home for me. It’s where it all began when I was seven. I love screen work, but I was itching to do another play. It had been three years since The Normal Heart, and I’d been telling my team I really wanted to get back on stage. Then I got a text from Josh, the assistant director on The Normal Heart. He said, “Have you heard of this play? It’s called Oh, Mary! There’s a part I think you’d be great for.” I had this really strange feeling. I stopped what I was doing, looked it up and tried to order the script. I couldn’t get it in the UK, so I found a bookshop in America and had it sent over. Within the first scene I put the book down and thought, “I need to do this.” It was unlike anything I’d ever read. I was laughing out loud, which is rare when you’re reading a script. Even now I still laugh backstage listening to it.
I’d mostly done drama, which I love, but at drama school, comedy was where I really thrived. I’d never really had the opportunity to show that professionally, so when this came along I grabbed it with everything I had. Before I’d even auditioned, I’d booked tickets to New York to see the play with my fiancé. Then I got the audition, and I was cast the day before I flew out. It all felt incredibly serendipitous.
MAP: I also reminded you every day that Titus Burgess was much better than I was.
DF: “Interesting choice…” [impersonating Mason]
MAP: “Well, Titus didn’t do it that way…”
DF: “No, no, it’s great. You do you.” [Still impersonating]
MAP: That’s the thing about this show. It’s so open to interpretation. I didn’t know you were such an idiot. Honestly, watching you every night, your physical comedy was extraordinary. Based on your career, I knew you could act, but I didn’t realise this whole other side of you existed. It makes me want to do a drama with you one day.
DF: That’s so lovely. I’m glad we met on that level because it’s actually much closer to who I am as a person. I’m very silly and playful and my humour is ridiculous. Getting to bring that part of myself into this role was such a gift. It also did something to me personally. When you get to access yourself like that on stage, it brings an aliveness that’s hard to explain. Every role changes me in some way, but this one was special.
Working opposite you was a huge part of that. From the first read-through you set the bar. It gave all of us permission to just play. No two shows were ever the same. You’d throw me something different, I’d throw something back, and whatever happened, I knew we’d figure it out because we’d built that trust. I realised something working with you. I’ve always had this tendency to be the good student, trying to get things right. But the right thing isn’t the magic. The moments that stay with me are when someone really listens. You’d respond differently because you were genuinely present, and suddenly the scene became something completely new. That made every performance exciting because I never knew exactly what was going to happen.
“The show was so physical that something would inevitably go wrong every few performances, and sometimes you’d make me laugh so much I couldn’t recover. I’d see that little twinkle in your eye right before I had to do something really earnest and think, “You bitch.“
MAP: That’s what I loved about the play. It gives actors permission to bring every part of themselves into a role. If you stay alive inside it, it’s impossible to be bored. Everything you give comes back from the audience, and that just encourages you to give more. It was such a joy getting to do that with you.
DF: There were definitely times we took it too far.
MAP: There’s no such thing as too much fun.
DF: We got in trouble with stage management a few times because we’d corpse. The show was so physical that something would inevitably go wrong every few performances, and sometimes you’d make me laugh so much I couldn’t recover. I’d see that little twinkle in your eye right before I had to do something really earnest and think, “You bitch.”
MAP: Public apology. That’s the only reason I agreed to do this interview.
DF: But those moments are the best. They’re awful at the time, but they remind you to stay present.
MAP: That’s what I’ll remember most. We had incredible moments throughout the run, but what really stays with me is the company we built.
DF: Absolutely. Of course, it was amazing having people like Ian McKellen and Sigourney Weaver come to see the show, but what I’ll always remember are the moments when things went wrong. You had to figure it out together in real time. That’s exciting. I also loved the family we built backstage. Thursday nights playing board games, dinners together after the show, rehearsals, nights out. Those are the things I’ll take with me.
MAP: There was something unique about this group. I’ve never been more certain that I want to stay in touch with an entire cast after a job. That made everything else, including the Oliviers, even more meaningful.
DF: What a night. We were nominated for Best New Entertainment or Comedy Play, but Mason had convinced me there was absolutely no chance we’d win. So, I’d prepared my polite congratulations face. Then they announced Oh, Mary!. I just jolted backwards in my seat. I looked at you and you looked completely stunned. It meant so much because it wasn’t about one person. It recognised what we’d built together as a company. It also reminded me to trust my instincts. I’d felt something special when I first read the script, and that award felt like affirmation that I’d been right to follow that feeling.